After our usual huge breakfast, we decided to go for a walk. Our hosts recommended a walk to a nearby lake, so we took their advice. We were able to walk through most of the village. It is a bit spread out, with what appears to be vacant land between houses (fields not tilled or mown).
There are also rose and lilac bushes growing roadside, like there may have been more homes at one time.
My research indicated there were around 100 inhabitants in the early 1900s, so that would be probably 15 - 25 homes. Today there might be 20 or so, along a 3 mile stretch of road.

We walked by the "center" of the village with a welcoming shrine and small community building, then headed east toward the lake. Soon I saw a small cemetery on the right, with some old wooden crosses and a few newer graves with marble, flowers, and candles. I wanted to go check it out, but Fred was hesitant, so we walked on toward the lake.
Fred was amazed that the area so reminded him of the UP or northern Michigan where he is from. He felt right at home and understood why his ancestors settled in the UP.


After the lake, on the return home, we decided there was a path to the cemetery, so we walked over to it and found there were in fact some very old monuments and crosses and some newer ones as well. On examination, we found the older ones inscribed in German and the newer in Polish. The Polish graves were well tended, but the German section was totally overgrown. We knew that in Germany, cemetery lots are rented for 20 years or so, then if the family does not "re-rent" the space, it is often reused.
So, if the Germans were all expelled at the end of WWII, then there would be no one around to re-rent nor to care for the graves. We walked on, still processing all that, then met a farmer pulling a piece of farm equipment - looks a bit military to my American eyes.

When we returned to the house, we took the car and drove to Dolice (previously Doelitz), the former home of Christian Frederick Wahl. Again, I did not expect to find Wahl ancestors remaining, but wanted to see the village and the cemetery (I had found an image of the cemetery online).

We drove around the village, taking photos, then found the cemetery, very much like the one in Sierakowo, only much larger. Several sections were obviously Polish and were very well cared for. Then we found the German sections, stones removed, overturned, or over grown with grass, shrubs and trees. See the bottom of this post for more Dolice photos.
My husband explained that the Catholic view on burials is also different from the Lutheran view, so we eventually boiled this down to 3 things:
1. Germans were expelled and there were no family members to pay for lots nor to provide upkeep
2. Polish Catholics would be buried in consecrated ground, not in the same spot as the non-catholics
3. There was a certain amount of animosity after the war, resulting in no real desire to provide upkeep
Keep in mind, many of the Poles who moved into this area after the war had also been expelled from their homes, many in eastern Poland or what is now Russia.
We think all of these concepts are difficult for Americans to fathom. Especially that families left their homes with just what they absolutely needed and could carry, and someone else who had also been expelled just moved in and started living in the home, using all of the property as their own. I know this happens in many countries where there are constant border wars and strife, but we just didn't "get it" before seeing this in person.
By this time, it was 2:30 in the afternoon and we felt the need for a light meal or snack, so not finding a cafe in Dolice, we went on to the next town, Choszczno. There we walked around until we found an ice cream place and sat and had a snack. On the way back to the car, I noticed a city cemetery, so still wondering if we had the right solution, we walked through this cemetery as well. Yes, it was the same, very separate and different German and Polish sections. However near the entrance was a small monument, erected in 1995, to the memory of ALL those buried there, inscribed in both German and Polish.
So it seems that some 50 years after the end of WWII, communities have begun the effort to come together again. Since we returned, I have found a website for a group of families that were expelled from this area and have started to work on parts of the Stargard cemetery.
After all that, back home to the B & B for some great supper and more conversation. All in all a fascinating day.
More Dolice photos: